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TRUTH . . #confidence #financialfreedom #motivation #personaldevelopment #business #trainer #businesscoach #successcoach #lovecoaching #coaching #careercoaching #mentor #money #relationshipcoach #goalsetting #loveadvice #goalplanning #lidercoach #coach #mindsetcoach #businessopportunity #relationshipadvice #purposedriven #prilaga #purposecoach #lider #selflove #success #couplesgoalsmotivation #womensupportingwomen - 2 minutes ago

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Should you online date?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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A lot of women tell me they have to online date because you can’t find a guy another way, but they hate it!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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There is a myth that now everything is online and if you are serious about having a relationship you need to get online⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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This completely NOT true.  You can meet men everywhere!!! There are great men everywhere!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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In fact this is what I specialize in.  Helping women date men they are attracted to in the REAL world.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The only reason you should online date is if it gets you excited!!! If you love being able to see the options in front of you quickly and you enjoying going back and forth with texts with guys before you meet them, then do it!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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If you dreading doing online dating, don’t do it, cause it won’t work.  Your energy has to be in a positive state for it work.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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So pick the way YOU want to meet guys!!! That’s the one that’s going to work.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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And if you want help going out in the REAL world attracting men.  Then get on a 15min call with me!!! DM me the words “love life”

Should you online date?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A lot of women tell me they have to online date because you can’t find a guy another way, but they hate it!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is a myth that now everything is online and if you are serious about having a relationship you need to get online⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This completely NOT true. You can meet men everywhere!!! There are great men everywhere!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ In fact this is what I specialize in. Helping women date men they are attracted to in the REAL world.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The only reason you should online date is if it gets you excited!!! If you love being able to see the options in front of you quickly and you enjoying going back and forth with texts with guys before you meet them, then do it!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you dreading doing online dating, don’t do it, cause it won’t work. Your energy has to be in a positive state for it work.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So pick the way YOU want to meet guys!!! That’s the one that’s going to work.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And if you want help going out in the REAL world attracting men. Then get on a 15min call with me!!! DM me the words “love life” - 3 minutes ago

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🗣You no longer have to rely on borrowed faith or external validation when you CONSISTENTLY clap for your damn self!
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Self-celebration. 
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🗣You no longer have to rely on borrowed faith or external validation when you CONSISTENTLY clap for your damn self! . 👏🏽👏🏽 . Self-celebration. Self-confidence. Self-assurance. Self-care. . SELF-LOVE. . 🤟🏽🌻💛 - 14 minutes ago

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Welcome to Soul Coaching! 🦋💖 Subscribe to my website for my free audio blogs.🎙 www.christieramirez.com 
Stay tuned for my upcoming events, livestreams, online courses, workshops, and more!📓💻 My mission is to serve you and teach you how to live more quality lives filled with happiness, joy, inner peace, love, harmonious relationships, and abundance! I hope I can be that guide you seek to help you on your soul journey. May you have an amazing blessed day. Namaste! 🙏🏽 Share this with someone who would be interested in this! 👉🏽 #christiesoulcoaching #christiesoulcoach #christieramirez

Welcome to Soul Coaching! 🦋💖 Subscribe to my website for my free audio blogs.🎙 www.christieramirez.com Stay tuned for my upcoming events, livestreams, online courses, workshops, and more!📓💻 My mission is to serve you and teach you how to live more quality lives filled with happiness, joy, inner peace, love, harmonious relationships, and abundance! I hope I can be that guide you seek to help you on your soul journey. May you have an amazing blessed day. Namaste! 🙏🏽 Share this with someone who would be interested in this! 👉🏽 #christiesoulcoaching #christiesoulcoach #christieramirez - 26 minutes ago

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How about a novel? I’ve totally done this: boyfriend is away, and the little thing bothering me has time to worm its way around my brain, multiplying into a bigger and bigger problem. Then, the text attacks start firing off.

It should basically be a rule by now not to discuss important or emotional topics through messages, but sometimes it happens. I get it. Instead of waiting for a DM war to start, check out my top 10 rules for clear and effective communication. Link in the bio! (image: @ridingincabswithboys )
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#relationshipstuff #modernlove #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching #realtalk #datingcoach #relationships #relationshiprules #relatable #aintthatthetruth
#relationshipmatters #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshipquote #quotestoliveby #loveadvice #relationships101 #relationshiphelp #relationshiptips #mentalhealth #mentalwealth #communication #love #lovelanguage #inarelationship #relationshipproblems #relationshipgoals #couples

How about a novel? I’ve totally done this: boyfriend is away, and the little thing bothering me has time to worm its way around my brain, multiplying into a bigger and bigger problem. Then, the text attacks start firing off. It should basically be a rule by now not to discuss important or emotional topics through messages, but sometimes it happens. I get it. Instead of waiting for a DM war to start, check out my top 10 rules for clear and effective communication. Link in the bio! (image: @ridingincabswithboys ) . . . . . #relationshipstuff #modernlove #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching #realtalk #datingcoach #relationships #relationshiprules #relatable #aintthatthetruth #relationshipmatters #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshipquote #quotestoliveby #loveadvice #relationships101 #relationshiphelp #relationshiptips #mentalhealth #mentalwealth #communication #love #lovelanguage #inarelationship #relationshipproblems #relationshipgoals #couples - 26 minutes ago

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What do you want to know about having healthy relationships?
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#LoveYourself #HealthyRelationships #HealthyRelationshipsByBeth #PureRomance #ChangingLivesYo #HustleAndHeart #PartyWithBeth #FindYourBliss #Booty_Busters #SAHM #BossBabe #Entrepreneur #HealthyLiving #FitAndFabulous #SexyAndSmart #HealthCoach #RelationshipCoach

What do you want to know about having healthy relationships? . #LoveYourself #HealthyRelationships #HealthyRelationshipsByBeth #PureRomance #ChangingLivesYo #HustleAndHeart #PartyWithBeth #FindYourBliss #Booty_Busters #SAHM #BossBabe #Entrepreneur #HealthyLiving #FitAndFabulous #SexyAndSmart #HealthCoach #RelationshipCoach - 31 minutes ago

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I keep my vision visible so I can see it daily. My bigger dreams I keep in a vision book. My current goals and dreams I keep out in the open! I set small goals (steps) towards my dreams. I often would get discouraged if things didn't happen right away. I tell myself now: As long as you are taking steps every day towards those dreams, they will come to pass!⁠
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I keep my vision visible so I can see it daily. My bigger dreams I keep in a vision book. My current goals and dreams I keep out in the open! I set small goals (steps) towards my dreams. I often would get discouraged if things didn't happen right away. I tell myself now: As long as you are taking steps every day towards those dreams, they will come to pass!⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ #lifecoach #lifecoaching #coaching #businesscoach #personaldevelopment #selfhelp #healthcoach #personalgrowth #selflove #mentor #selfdevelopment #coach #spiritjunkie #motivationalspeaker #relationshipcoach #lawofattraction #selfworth #gratitude #lifelessons #mindset #selfawareness #selfesteem #empower #empowerment #productivity #author #leadership - 33 minutes ago

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Our relationship education begins at home… so, unless you went and took a class on relationships, how would you know how to successfully be in one? How would you know how to successfully navigate conflict if no one in your home navigated it well?⁣
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The limits we hit in love will usually be the hereditary limits our family tree has always hit, because no one has done it differently. No one has loved deeper and gone deeper so as to teach the next generation.⁣
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It’s your responsibility to learn your limits. It’s on you to find the edge of how you love and to learn what you need to do to go deeper into your own heart - so you can do that with another. Remember, if you don’t know the love that’s on the other side of conflict, you don’t know what exists and what is possible when disagreement actually allows you and your partner to learn each other and get to another level… when we do that, we take our family tree and plant roots that fertilize themselves. - Mark Groves
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If you want to learn how to more effectively navigate hard conversations - join my upcoming workshop on 1st September. **Registration link in the bio** #mindfullovetribe #mindfulnessmeetsdating #healthyrelationships 
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Our relationship education begins at home… so, unless you went and took a class on relationships, how would you know how to successfully be in one? How would you know how to successfully navigate conflict if no one in your home navigated it well?⁣ •⁣ The limits we hit in love will usually be the hereditary limits our family tree has always hit, because no one has done it differently. No one has loved deeper and gone deeper so as to teach the next generation.⁣ •⁣ It’s your responsibility to learn your limits. It’s on you to find the edge of how you love and to learn what you need to do to go deeper into your own heart - so you can do that with another. Remember, if you don’t know the love that’s on the other side of conflict, you don’t know what exists and what is possible when disagreement actually allows you and your partner to learn each other and get to another level… when we do that, we take our family tree and plant roots that fertilize themselves. - Mark Groves • If you want to learn how to more effectively navigate hard conversations - join my upcoming workshop on 1st September. **Registration link in the bio** #mindfullovetribe #mindfulnessmeetsdating #healthyrelationships #relationshipcoach #workshopsindelhi #delhigram #eventsindelhincr - 40 minutes ago

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Work day complete, dinner done, house duties done, now time for me! 30 min jog! Let’s do it!  #once_fat #gastricbypass #backtothebasics #sexymexis #stayontrack #abdominoplasty #mastoplasty #pannulectomy #rnygastricbypass #tummytuck #byebyelooseskin #selflove #gettingfit #nsv #lifecoaching #intuitivelifecoach #personalcoach #spiritualcoach #relationshipcoach #weightlosssurgerycoach #mindfulnesscoach #staypositive #faithoverfear #lifecoaching, #intuitivelifecoach, #personalcoach, #spiritualcoach, #relationshipcoach, #weightlosssurgerycoach, #confidencecoach, #returningtoschoolcoach, #careerlvn, #lovespeople, #empath, #positivity

Work day complete, dinner done, house duties done, now time for me! 30 min jog! Let’s do it! #once_fat #gastricbypass #backtothebasics #sexymexis #stayontrack #abdominoplasty #mastoplasty #pannulectomy #rnygastricbypass #tummytuck #byebyelooseskin #selflove #gettingfit #nsv #lifecoaching #intuitivelifecoach #personalcoach #spiritualcoach #relationshipcoach #weightlosssurgerycoach #mindfulnesscoach #staypositive #faithoverfear #lifecoaching , #intuitivelifecoach , #personalcoach , #spiritualcoach , #relationshipcoach , #weightlosssurgerycoach , #confidencecoach , #returningtoschoolcoach , #careerlvn , #lovespeople , #empath , #positivity - 41 minutes ago

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On Friday I had a question going on in my mind about "if all forms of therapy are effective, what makes them effective when they do work?" .

I'm getting great answers in what creates lasting change in emotional fitness and owning yourself as a person to be free and create your best lifestyle... I study and practice so much that when I have someone in front of me who needs help, I don't fail them. .. I'm insanely driven by not failing anyone who needs help. And I'm really excited practicing these principles for myself and making them so simple to teach to others 😃😃😃 . .

I feel like not only my training at robbins madanes training and all the books I've read and all the skills and strategies I have developed in the past have all lead me here... I'll never stop learning but it's amazing to feel this is where I belong is in this space to be of service. .

I'm available for a free session if you are struggling emotionally and would like help. No strings attached and no games. Link on my page 🤟💖 #lifecoach #relationshipcoach #emotionalfitness #emotionalwellbeing #destiny

On Friday I had a question going on in my mind about "if all forms of therapy are effective, what makes them effective when they do work?" . I'm getting great answers in what creates lasting change in emotional fitness and owning yourself as a person to be free and create your best lifestyle... I study and practice so much that when I have someone in front of me who needs help, I don't fail them. .. I'm insanely driven by not failing anyone who needs help. And I'm really excited practicing these principles for myself and making them so simple to teach to others 😃😃😃 . . I feel like not only my training at robbins madanes training and all the books I've read and all the skills and strategies I have developed in the past have all lead me here... I'll never stop learning but it's amazing to feel this is where I belong is in this space to be of service. . I'm available for a free session if you are struggling emotionally and would like help. No strings attached and no games. Link on my page 🤟💖 #lifecoach #relationshipcoach #emotionalfitness #emotionalwellbeing #destiny - 55 minutes ago

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The most common areas of relationship conflict, according to research done by (one of my favorite humans 🔥🥰) Dr. John Gottman: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What are your most common conflict areas?

The most common areas of relationship conflict, according to research done by (one of my favorite humans 🔥🥰) Dr. John Gottman: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . Money . Sex . Housework . Internet-fueld Distractions . Work Stress . In-laws . Newborn baby What are your most common conflict areas? - 1 hour ago

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GOD CREATED MEN TO GIVE!...it’s difficult to be in a relationship or marriage with a man who refuse to give to you on an emotional and spiritual level. He has knowledge that you need in certain areas as a woman. We don’t have all the answers we need what God placed in men who KNOW WHO THEY ARE! @iamcheresehenry

GOD CREATED MEN TO GIVE!...it’s difficult to be in a relationship or marriage with a man who refuse to give to you on an emotional and spiritual level. He has knowledge that you need in certain areas as a woman. We don’t have all the answers we need what God placed in men who KNOW WHO THEY ARE! @iamcheresehenry - 1 hour ago

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What happened along the way that has caused you to believe that you don't deserve to make $10,000, $50,000 or even $100,000 in your coaching business? 
Tonight during my Case Study with DrCarlene Randolph, I realized that A LOT of Believers in Business doubt their ability to command this type of money in their coaching business. 
She shared how at the moment she decided to invest in working with me, EVERYTHING around her indicated that she should not!

However, she made a DECISION that she wanted something different in her life and business and then she took the ACTION to make it happen.....although logically she probably should not have. 
As a result of her doing so, she closed a $100,000 sale (with another 5-figure deal in the works). NOW is the time to get off the sidelines and get into the game. Contrary to what you may be saying to yourself...you can also close $10,000, $50,000 and even $100,000 in sales....BUT, you must DECIDE that you deserve it and take the action by taking the next step!

What happened along the way that has caused you to believe that you don't deserve to make $10,000, $50,000 or even $100,000 in your coaching business? Tonight during my Case Study with DrCarlene Randolph, I realized that A LOT of Believers in Business doubt their ability to command this type of money in their coaching business. She shared how at the moment she decided to invest in working with me, EVERYTHING around her indicated that she should not! However, she made a DECISION that she wanted something different in her life and business and then she took the ACTION to make it happen.....although logically she probably should not have. As a result of her doing so, she closed a $100,000 sale (with another 5-figure deal in the works). NOW is the time to get off the sidelines and get into the game. Contrary to what you may be saying to yourself...you can also close $10,000, $50,000 and even $100,000 in sales....BUT, you must DECIDE that you deserve it and take the action by taking the next step! - 1 hour ago

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I desire to be the 💡 in a world filled with so much darkness. #motivationalpost #transformational #inspirationalpost #lifelessons #positivemind #relationshipcoach #author #blogger #beautifulkes #beautiful #instagood

I desire to be the 💡 in a world filled with so much darkness. #motivationalpost #transformational #inspirationalpost #lifelessons #positivemind #relationshipcoach #author #blogger #beautifulkes #beautiful #instagood - 1 hour ago

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It’s a brand new week. Why not challenge yourself to try something different & do that one thing that could land you a step closer to your dreams? ✨

It’s a brand new week. Why not challenge yourself to try something different & do that one thing that could land you a step closer to your dreams? ✨ - 1 hour ago

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Courtesy of #thoughtsofamatureman 🔥🔥 What are your thoughts?? . . 🎀🎀🎀TAG + FOLLOW + SHARE + COMMENT+THANK YOU 💥💥💝Relationship Enrichment Coach empowering women🔙🔛🔝in life and love💘 For more information🐇🐇hop over to: www.womenofexcellence.biz👀 #relationshipexpert #positionedforpurpose #frommatchedtomarried #soultiescoach #relationshipgoals #relationshipgoal #relationshipadvice #relationshipissues #relationshipproblems #soulties #lovecoach #datingwithpurpose #lovetips #relationshipbooks #relationshipissues #marriagecoach #relationshipcoach #relationshipmatters #toxicrelationship - 1 hour ago

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#MakeItHappenMonday #LifeCoach #RelationshipCoach #ConfidentCoach #ChronicIllnessCoach #SelfAwareness #Vibrations #SelfLove #Life #Transformation #Scottsdale #PhoenixNailsTekTucson #Seattle #LosAngeles #Brooklyn #Boston #Baltimore #NewYorkCity #Atlanta #Charlotte #Denver #Detroit#

#MakeItHappenMonday #LifeCoach #RelationshipCoach #ConfidentCoach #ChronicIllnessCoach #SelfAwareness #Vibrations #SelfLove #Life #Transformation #Scottsdale #PhoenixNailsTekTucson #Seattle #LosAngeles #Brooklyn #Boston #Baltimore #NewYorkCity #Atlanta #Charlotte #Denver #Detroit # - 1 hour ago

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Ingin Ada di Depan? Mulai Sekarang!

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Ingin Ada di Depan? Mulai Sekarang! #getting #secret #ahead #started #selasa #tuesday #motivation #positivity #relationshipcoach #familycoach #weddingexpert - 2 hours ago

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LEAVING A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP 🌸⁠
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We need to experience pain in order to grow and learn. ⁠
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Sometimes, pain is the growth that we need to learn and do better - otherwise, we would already be in healthy relationships to begin with. ⁠
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Leaving a toxic relationship starts with self-love, and realising that we deserve better. ⁠
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On the other side of the coin, if a toxic person is one that LACKS this self-love, how can we expect them to treat us in a positive way? ⁠
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We need to change our mindset when we approach relationships. My fave nugget from the TLT Podcast episode with @mrselflove was when he said that instead of always asking ourselves, ‘do they love me?’, we need to be asking, ‘do they love themselves?’ - that will give us the biggest clue as to whether they are someone we can have a healthy and positive relationship with.⁠
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So, how can you tell if someone has self-love?⁠
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⟼ Do they take care of their health? ⁠
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⟼ Do they allow themselves their own time to fill their own cup, and are you allowing them to have that time? ⁠
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Often in relationships, we need to be careful in the honeymoon phase, as it can sometimes turn into a 24/7 codependency - we become inseparable and start to feel like we can’t live without one another. ⁠
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It’s both unhealthy and unsustainable - we need our own time, our own hobbies, our friends outside of our romantic relationships, so we can continue to show up as the best version of ourselves. ✨⁠
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LEAVING A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP 🌸⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ We need to experience pain in order to grow and learn. ⁠ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ Sometimes, pain is the growth that we need to learn and do better - otherwise, we would already be in healthy relationships to begin with. ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ Leaving a toxic relationship starts with self-love, and realising that we deserve better. ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ On the other side of the coin, if a toxic person is one that LACKS this self-love, how can we expect them to treat us in a positive way? ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ We need to change our mindset when we approach relationships. My fave nugget from the TLT Podcast episode with @mrselflove was when he said that instead of always asking ourselves, ‘do they love me?’, we need to be asking, ‘do they love themselves?’ - that will give us the biggest clue as to whether they are someone we can have a healthy and positive relationship with.⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ So, how can you tell if someone has self-love?⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ ⟼ Do they take care of their health? ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ ⟼ Do they allow themselves their own time to fill their own cup, and are you allowing them to have that time? ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ Often in relationships, we need to be careful in the honeymoon phase, as it can sometimes turn into a 24/7 codependency - we become inseparable and start to feel like we can’t live without one another. ⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ It’s both unhealthy and unsustainable - we need our own time, our own hobbies, our friends outside of our romantic relationships, so we can continue to show up as the best version of ourselves. ✨⁠ ⁠⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁠ Read more on our latest blog! Link in bio 💓 - 2 hours ago

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