Hmmmmm...agreed or not Ladies & Gentlemen? Can an ex come back after a decade? CONFESSION: In 2009, I let an ex re-enter my life. We’d dated when I was in college and SO young. I say “so YOUNG” because I remember being SO agreeable because I liked him SO MUCH! I was only a fraction of myself because I wasn’t sure if he would like...or could handle all of me! . . .
Well, in 2009, I was SO GROWN and refused to be anyone but ALL OF WHO I AM, and he liked it! We dated for about 18 months, seriously discussed marriage and a future together and he got cold feet. At the end of the day, it was not what he wanted because he wasn’t able to follow through with ACTIONS on the WORDS/PROMISES he had made. I don’t regret for one minute going back to him, and surprisingly we almost reconnected again right before I met my Husband. . . .
I’m THANKFUL to that ex because he showed me straight up that ACTIONS mattered more than WORDS. So when I met Reginald and he came in SHOWING ACTIONS, I knew there would never be a chance for me to allow myself to be swayed only by words. Once I met Reginald and knew he was a different kind of man, I actually told my ex that I couldn’t talk to him anymore. He knew it was serious and actually respected my decision. I don’t regret cutting him off and focusing on the MAN WITH THE PLAN AND ACTIONS TO MATCH! What about you? Have you ever dated an Ex after a substantial period of time away? How did things work out? - 1 hour ago