A lot of us women dream of being found by our knight in shining armor. Sometimes we stand in the way of that by focusing on our careers in our early lives, or we've just been bad at relationships. After a while you find yourself scraping for what-lefts, living in panic. Secretly envying other couples even if they are your best friends. Then worst if you are in the church, the pressure and humiliation is twice as much. Because not only do you feel like a mis-fit amongst all the lovely married and "perfect" couples, but the few single men that are left don't even seem to want to look your way.
So you feel discouraged and ugly, and tomorrow is your birthday so great another year and no man. Plus you feel fat.
I've been there......I got married to my knight in shining armor at the age of 37. The reason marriage took so long for me was totally my fault. ....how?
It was because of my self image. I had a negative self image. I had no issues attracting men but they would not stay, because I'm my negative depressed consistent debbi-downer behavior. Then I always had a self defeating thought process that said "he won't marry me, my tummy is too big, blah blah". So...... The universe was responding according to my thoughts and my vibration.
Then I started listening to The Secret, and refocusing the way I think. And in the blink of an eye, my husband showed up!
People always preach that you have to love yourself before you can love another and you have to be whole, and you have to have it all together before you get into a relationship. That's really not true! All you need to do is take one hard look in the mirror and change your self image. Acknowledge that you look great, and you are great, and that you are enough. Start believing this. When a guy approaches you out of nowhere (and he will), just be happy and joyful, and be YOU. Awesome YOU!
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