You know when you do all these silly little things that aren’t actually your priority to trick yourself into thinking you’re being productive?
Even though you know good and well you are putting off the big, uncomfortable tasks that actually will propel your life forward?
I know I’ve fallen into this trap of productive procrastination time and time again. And you know what I’ve found helps actually break it?
Speaking your goals out loud. Telling a group of trusted friends your big, scary, over the top dreams. And then break those dreams down and work backwards, reverse engineer what will bring you towards your goals.
Usually these steps are scary and awkward and uncomfortable and make you wanna say forget this and run and hide. This is where your tribe is essential. You will always fall back into old habits if there is nothing and no one holding a mirror up to your face and telling you you’re playing small.
It takes acting like the top 1% of people to get there. That means you have to push through the discomfort 99% more than what anyone else will. Which means you can’t always surround yourself with the 45%ers that tell you what you’re doing is weird because it scares them. That talk about how life is against them and decide to label themselves as a victim as soon as life throws them a curve ball.
No. You need to meet the go getters, you need to share your goals that you thought were big and crazy to a group of people that don’t bat an eye when they hear them, because their dreams are just as big.
You need to surround yourself only with people who FORCE you to level up.
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