Some days you just have to go with the flow. Some fights aren't worth having.
Sure you could tell people exactly what you think, but what's the point? What will that accomplish? Will you make them see the error of their ways? Or did you just throw gas on the fire?
Sure, you can cut out co-workers, friends or even family but if that's how you handle your fights soon you will have no one left. Is that what you want?
So what do you do when you have been wronged or think you've been wronged?
Well for me, my wife says I hold grudges forever, but honestly, for me to do that, you have to have done something pretty bad to me or my family. Yes there are people on the list, three to be exact. There use to be more but I forced myself to re-evaluate who gets to "sit at my table". Why? I guess at the end of the day I don't want to end up old, cranky and alone.
So I decided that I want to be happy, enjoy life and go with the flow. If that makes me weak, well at least I will be a happy weakling lol.
#gowiththeflow #nogrudges - 3 hours ago