An loving relationship
Is built through love, trust, faith and communication.
But, it’s also built through doubts, hesitations, doubts and fears.
And it is how you overcome these moments that allows you to build a solid foundation for growth and happiness.
For the last 4.5 years, Lindsey and I have faced a great deal of challenges as a couple and in each one, we’ve come out the other side with deeper love and passion for each other.
See, I put this out here because I believe that our love IS boundless and deeper than anything I could ever express in words.
But, it by no means is perfect.
And that is okay.
The reason why it is is because we have faced each challenge with the agreement to never go to sleep without resolving our conflict
We’ve also learned to realize that it is not her fault or my fault just like it’s not her problem or my problem.
Every time there is a challenge, it is OURS.
Because when you get stuck or do make a mess of your relationship with your partner, the question isn’t as much what did they do to you but more so, what role did you play in making the mess to begin with?
And if you can address it as a pair of people, aiming to solve a problem rather than two adversaries aiming to be right, then the problem will actually get solved.
If you’re feeling challenged in your relationship, I just posted a podcast with Lindsey where we discussed the top 5 breakthroughs we’ve had as a couple.
If you’re feeling challenged in your relationship right now, whether it is right now, tomorrow or this week, check it out as I believe it has the capacity to make a difference in your life. - 5 hours ago