Close your eyes.
Imagine the life that you would create for yourself if there was NOTHING holding you back.
Now, compare that to the current reality you are living in. Do they align at all?
You see, we make a lot of excuses for ourselves. We excuse away the life that we are unhappy living because “what other choice do we have?” Today, I want to tell you that YOU HAVE A CHOICE! What you’ve been taught to accept as your reality is NOT the only option for your life. We have the power to prioritize what truly matters, and it all starts with creating NON-NEGOTIABLES!
The thing about creating non-negotiables is that you are no longer trying to fit your ideals into your life. You are creating your life around what matters most to you.
You are deciding that everything you do will be in an effort to prioritize the things you are not willing to sacrifice.
What if you stopped wondering, wishing, hoping, and dreaming about a different life? What if you stopped accepting the lie that you can’t have or don’t deserve your deepest desires? What if you diligently took action towards your non-negotiables every single day?
The truth is, non-negotiables are not just goals or dreams. They are not “what if” questions, or cool ideas, or distant longings. They are the TOP priorities in your life.
Here’s the thing: we have the power to sit back, wish, wait, and dream all day, every day, without ever taking action towards our deepest desires. In fact, society gives us permission to live that kind of life. BUT, we also have the powerful opportunity to pursue what matters most to us.
Ask yourself everyday, “does this support the life I’m trying to create?” Your dreams are YOUR responsibility. Be empowered by knowing that you are in control of your own life. Think about the dreams you have inside of you. Then, consider how it would feel and how things would look if you made them non-negotiables.
You have to see it. It has to be so clear that you can’t imagine your life looking any other way.
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