What is entropy? It is the randomness and lack of certainty within a system. When we are on the precipice of change, we experience major entropy. With our emotions, with our environment, with others. We are experiencing the potential to shift in real time.
As we build the pressure in our internal system, we are challenged to either release it (only to soon build again , ie patterns of behaviour) or we are invited to expand. Like a butterfly from a cocoon, we must put in effort to break free from our current structure of knowing.
So what happens when we watch our partners experience entropy? If you’re a caring, loving person, it may feel appropriate to try and help them. To do your best to solve their problem or fix their situation. Who likes to see the people they love hurting?? No one. It’s normal to want to “release” their entropy. BUT, it doesn’t make it helpful.
Imagine peeling back the cocoon for the butterfly. 🦋 The wings require the entropy required when leaving the cocoon. They need this strength to fly.
IM CURIOUS: Where are you releasing the entropy from someone you love? How is this helping them grow? OR, is it keeping them in their problem.. and keeping YOU feeling purposeful? - 9 hours ago