"Why even bother???" (ever hear yourself thinking this? read on)
"I Can't" Hilda and "I Don't Wanna" Hilda are two of the different BS beliefs of Hilda. And when those two broads are in cahoots, you're in trouble. -
You've got "I Can't" on one shoulder, saying to you, "Who do you think you are? "There's something wrong with you, "You know you're gonna fail anyway, you suck." She's this childhood bully that follows you around, and treats you like crap, and feeds you copious amounts of self-doubt. -
On the other shoulder, you've got "I Don't Wanna" Hilda. "I Don't Wanna" Hilda is the nice one, the enabling one, she's the one that says, "psht, it's okay, "don't you wanna watch some Netflix with me? "It's gonna be too hard, you don't really wanna do that, "I mean, I know that sounds nice, "but it's really too hard for you, "here's something shiny, let's go play with that." -
So when you have both of these characters hanging out in your head at the same time, when there's something big that you wanna do, that's when we've got trouble. And that's where the "pff, why even bother?" attitude comes in. -
In today's YouTube video, I explain this strange dance of these two Hildas and what you can do about it. Please watch, like, comment, and share...
https://youtu.be/EvOqatbYYJw - 2 hours ago