Them : When are you getting married? You are already getting old, and age is not on your side.
Me : (mtchew Stories that dinnor touch), is like you don't know that this is the memory verse our African parent start reciting once you are of a particular age in Africa. (I specifically pity the ladies 😟😟, pressure ti poju ) So when next they troll you or bother you on why you are still single at 27,28, 29, 30.
Tell them confidently and Boldly that you are meant to enjoy your singleness and not endure it.
One thing i have discovered is that if you are intentional about your decisions, it is easier to sail against the storm of (Go and marry) pressure. You give them reasons confidently. But if you aren't even sure about why you are still single, you fidget and sway around at the slightest (why are you still single) questions. Waking up all night to shed unnecessary tears.
Meanwhile, here are two important lines that I want to share with you.
If they are not of any use to you, you can push it to someone else 😟. 1. No matter how bad and Adulterated your past has been, your future is a Virgin.
2. Your singleness is a reservoir or bank. You are saving up now, that you may use it in the future.
Mind you, you can only withdraw what you have saved.
YOU DARE NOT FORGET THE GOD FACTOR. (you can add yours too in the comment box). More importanterly PS : when the bigger age starts setting in, like 35, 36, and it's seniors, you might have to intentionally put a pause to the single enjoyment, and concentrate on the process of double enjoyment.
Unless otherwise you want to be like Bro Paul, and sister... Nun. . ............................................................... (I meant the real Paul the Apostle, not the Bro Paul you saw in church today o 😐😐). #swap2019 was a great blessing to me. #singlewithapurpose #singles #development #careergrowth #marriagegoals #singlegoals #goals #growth . - 3 hours ago