Open Your Mind 🦋 don’t judge we are all Unique 🏼
Whether it’s in friendships or relationships, it’s natural in times of conflict to expect the other person to do, say, or behave the way we would (or how we want them to) but this rarely happens.
If you put 100 people in a room and ask them to describe the feeling they had walking in you’ll get 100 different descriptions.
Each of us has a unique lens of the world, based on our life experiences, relationships and unhealed wounds from the past.
It takes maturity and compassion to validate someone else in their reality even when it's conflicting with yours.
Our ego always wants to be right, but when we’re moving towards growth and healing in relationship, our greatest challenge is to let go, and be a witness to what is being reflected back to us.
When someone doesn’t agree with you, or sees the situation differently than you, it doesn’t mean anything about either of you other than the fact that you’re human. It's ok not to agree sometimes.
We all want our emotions and experiences to be validated - and in relationship, “the truth” is relative to what’s going on inside.
If we struggle with self-esteem, we may fight desperately to be seen or heard by our friends or partners rather than doing the deeper work and making it an inside job.
Understanding that others have their own stories and wounds to work through can allow us to enter a space of compassion rather than attachment in the moment.
When we care more about the heart of the person in front of us than we do about tending to the desires of the ego, we’re doing the hard work of creating Conscious Relationship.
One not built on needing the other to be the same as us, but loving them as they are.
And by the way, this kind of acceptance is usually only going to happen when you have learned to accept yourself too.
If you strongly dislike a part of yourself that you've labeled as too much or not enough, you’ll have a really hard time accepting another for those qualities too.
It's all about self-acceptance baby! 🏼 no one is right or perfect. .
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