There is a possibility of Love which has no opposite to it, but that love can come only when you go beyond inauthentic love. And to go beyond, I suggest you be authentic. To be authentic in hate, in love, and anger. In everything, be authentic, real, not pretending, because only a reality can be transcended. You cannot transcend unreal things.
Mind is just like a pendulum and every day you will come to know this. You decide, one thing is one extreme, and then you move to another. You are angry then you repent. You decide "this is enough, now I will never be angry." But you do not see the extreme. "Never" is an extreme. How are you so certain that you will never be angry? What are you saying? Think twice more - "never?" When you say "I will never be angry" you do not know that by being angry you have accumulated momentum to go to The Other Extreme. Now you are feeling repentant, you are feeling bad. Your self-image is Disturbed, Shakin. Now you cannot say you are a good man, you cannot say that you are a religious man. You have been angry, and how can a religious man be angry? How can a good man be disturbed?
So you repent to regain your goodness again. At least in your own eyes you can feel at ease that you have repented and you have decided that now there will be no more anger. The shaken image has come back to the old status quo. Now you feel at ease, you have moved to another extreme. But the mind that says now I will never be angry, will again be angry. And when you are again angry, you will forget completely your repentance your decision, everything. After anger, again the decision will come in, the repentance will come, and you will never feel the deception of it. This is always been so. Mind moves from anger to repentance, from repentance to anger.
Remain in the middle. Do not be angry and do not repent. If you have been angry, then please, at least do not repent. Do not move to the Other Extreme. Say "I have been angry and I am bad man, A violent man. I have been angry. This is how I am." But do not repent do not move to the Other Extreme. Remain in the middle if you can remain, you will not gather the momentum, the energy to be angry again. - 4 hours ago